Inclusive Leadership
December 15, 2020
These are my notes from session on Inclusive Leadership at VMware
Diversity #
- visible traits and invisible traits/dimensions of our identity (eg. religion)
URMs #
minorities - black, latam, american indians, native alaskans, pacific islanders /hawaiaans
URGs #
groups
Equity #
distribution of resources to address systemic barriers and support equal outcomes
vs. equality is everyone gets the same thing (eg. notebook + pen vs laptops for devs, etc)
equal is not equitable (meat to a room that includes vegetarians)
Inclusion #
- Cognizance bias is a achillles heel Humility - i am biased but want to improve Empathy - prespective taking
- Courage talking about imperfections takes risk taking
- Commitment staying the course is hard
- Curiosity
- Cultural Intelligence
- Collaboration
In Groups #
- set the rules/norms in a culture
- often unaware of their privilege
Out Groups #
- work hard to fit in
- less power
Pschological Safety #
- Amy Edmonson
- Sense of confidence that the team will not embarass, reject or punish someone for speaking up
- Shared beleif that the team is safe for interpersonal risk taking
- Notice when you’re contributing to in-group/out-group behaviours
Create Pysch safety #
- encourage conversational turn-taking
- be empathetic and socially sensitve
Micro aggressions #
- they are suble discrimination that reflects painful stereotypes, practices, policies and world views
- analogy of mosquito bites
- 1 bite is annoying
- constant biting over a long period of time is debilitating
- analogy of mosquito bites
- admit they exist
- ask difficult questions
- show peers that it is unacceptable - call them out
- microaffirmations can counter microaggessions
- recognize that microagressions reflect painful, deeply embedded stereotypes, practices, policies, and worldviews
- if bias is “what”; microaggressions are the “how”
Covering #
- hiding a unfavored trait/identity to fit in
- appearance based
- affiliation based
- emotional tax - the state of being on guard
intersectionality #
no one is defined by a single category
Privilege #
- system advantage or privileged isnt so much about what you have, but what you dont have to think about